More people than ever are skipping the big family do and booking a solo Christmas instead — and the UK turns out to be surprisingly good at it. Travel writer and three-time solo-Christmas veteran (she started with a shepherd's hut in Worcestershire, complete with wood-fired tub, and hasn't looked back) has mapped out where to go if December 25th on your own terms sounds like heaven rather than a punishment.

For festive atmosphere, Edinburgh is hard to beat. December brings markets in Princes Street Gardens, mulled wine on George Street and a Big Christmas Show running until Christmas Eve — then the city goes blissfully quiet on the 25th itself, making an empty Royal Mile stroll under the lights a genuine treat. The Kimpton Charlotte Square, a set of Georgian townhouses with a basement spa, makes a comfortable base.

If you'd rather hike than hustle, the Lake District keeps working through the holidays. The fells are open to anyone with decent gear, and Windermere Lake Cruises runs sailings on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day, linking you to Ambleside's fire-warmed pubs and the Stock Ghyll waterfall, or the views from Bowness. One of the region's loveliest Airbnbs, No.2 The Folly, has a copper bath and wood-burner for cooking your own dinner — stock up at Tebay's Westmorland Farm Shop en route.

Oxfordshire blends city charm with what the writer calls wild wellness. Oxford's spires and Broad Street market look the part on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day, but eight miles out, the Root Steady Sauna on Queenford Lake offers festive sweats and cold dips, while the Wittenham Clumps provide waymarked Christmas Day walking along the Thames. Springs Resort in Wallingford rents self-catering hot tub lodges nearby.

Prefer drama? The Jurassic Coast in Dorset serves storm-whipped seas and blustery Coast Path walking around Bridport, with Golden Cap's National Trust estate overlooking the pebble beaches. Fossil-hunting on Lyme Regis beach — one of the richest in the UK — means you might even find your own Christmas present. Louma Country Hotel, two miles inland, has a vineyard, kitchen garden and heated indoor and outdoor pools.

North Cornwall is the pick for a communal moment: every Christmas Day around 11am, hundreds of swimmers take to the Atlantic at Polzeath, where the water sits around 11°C — mulled wine afterwards is basically mandatory. For a calmer dip, Trevone Sea Pool at low tide does the trick, and the cosy cottages at Trevear Farm come with a heated pool, sauna, steam room and an honesty bar.

Who is this for? Anyone dreading the obligations of another crowded festive season, or grieving a change in family circumstances, or simply curious what Christmas looks like with nothing scheduled but a walk, a sauna and a good dinner. The common thread across all five options: book accommodation that pampers, plan one outdoorsy ritual, and let the day stay empty on purpose.